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The Worries We Carry Are Nothing

​ APRIL 25, 2026 · RWAMAGANA, RWANDA · 21:00 The Night God  Held  My Son A personal testimony of faith, fear, and the unmistakable hand of Providence ✦ There are moments in a man's life that do not ask for your belief. They simply arrive — and when they leave, they take your doubt with them. — E. Abayisenga Cyuzuzo, April 25, 2026 I. THE EVENING An Ordinary Night That  Was Not Ordinary It was a Saturday like any other in Rwamagana. Jean Paul, an electrician, had come to the house to finish repairing a washing machine. He arrived while I was away — him and his motorcyclist, patient men, waiting. When I returned, their motorcycle was parked on the balcony inside the gate. My car, a Kia Sorento automatic, sat behind the gate the way it always does — angled on the slope of the hill my home is built upon. This is the land I know. This is the hill I park on every day. Nothing unusual. Nothing to fear. Jean Paul finished his work and prepared to leave. As any host would, I drove...
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LIFE & HUMAN NATURE

The People Who  Stay On Trust, True Family & Living with a Good Heart Some of life's most important lessons are not taught in school. They are learned through time, through watching people, and through the quiet pain of knowing who truly stands with you — and who does not. Stay Kind. Always. First, let us be clear about one thing:   never stop being a good person.   The world may be rough. People may disappoint you. But your kindness is yours. Do not give anyone the power to take it from you. Being kind does not mean being weak. It does not mean allowing people to walk all over you. It means choosing, every single day, to act with love and decency — not because people deserve it, but because   you   deserve to be that kind of person.                  — ✦ — Who Is Real Family? Here is a simple but powerful idea:  real family is not about blood. It is about loyalty. Real family means the people who will  n...

When the Past Walks Into the Office

​ A True Story of Rejection, Resilience, and Professional Grace By Abayisenga Cyuzuzo Édouard  |  Written in 2026   This is a story about a rejection that never quite ended — and a collaboration that never should have worked. It is written for every professional who has found themselves sharing an office, a meeting room, or a leadership team with someone from their personal past. It is written for those who felt the sting of being misunderstood, misjudged, or unfairly doubted. Most of all, it is written for those who chose — quietly, stubbornly, at great personal cost — to be better than the story others told about them.   Chapter 1: The Beginning of Everything — Kigali, 2014 In 2014, a young engineering student named Édouard was chasing two things in Kigali: internet access and the completion of his final thesis. The thesis was on soil science — specifically, assessing the impact of soil quality on the stability of compacted feeder roads. It was serious, technical w...

The Quiet Betrayal

Trust, Loneliness, and the Unwritten Rules of Workplace Survival   There is a particular kind of pain that has no name but is immediately recognized by those who have lived it. It is the ache that follows realizing the person you trusted, helped, defended, and openly shared your vulnerabilities with — has used every one of those things against you. Not in a dramatic act of visible cruelty, but slowly, quietly, surgically. In the workplace, this experience is more common than most people admit. And for workers who carry the added weight of racial and social identity in environments that were not built with them in mind, this wound cuts even deeper. This article is for those who have been there. It is also a warning for those who have not yet arrived.   Part One: The Architecture of Workplace Trust Human beings are wired for connection. We spend roughly a third of our waking lives at work, and it is natural — almost inevitable — that we seek warmth in those spaces. We laugh with...